From the mother of a trans daughter
I wanted to share a few things I’ve learned as the mother of a trans daughter, with the caveat that I’m no expert and am still learning something new everyday.
I wanted to share a few things I’ve learned as the mother of a trans daughter, with the caveat that I’m no expert and am still learning something new everyday.
DISCLAIMER: 4/20/2022 Hey there! It’s been about five years since I wrote Boys Who Wear Makeup and it has made its way around the virtual world. Lots of things have changed during that time. Erik headed off to college and subsequently came out as transgender. Her pronouns have changed as has her happiness. She …
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ERIK I’m not really sure when it first clicked in my head that I was gay. There wasn’t a big “aha” moment where I gasped and the camera zoomed in on me as a musical number about my newfound gaiety started playing. I think I just kind of knew my whole life, but until …
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I read a quote once that said,”Parenting is like looking both ways before you cross the road and then getting hit by an airplane.” In his freshman year of high school we started noticing some unsettling behavior in our oldest son. He had always been happy and easy going, so we thought his new behavior was …